Hey, it’s Xavier again, your favorite opinion editor (I don’t care if I’m the only opinion editor). This week, Karissa Sharley, junior liberal arts education major, is responding to a previous opinion article about Southern’s updated Sexual Integrity Policy. Karissa is a good friend of mine, and she’s one of those friends that I like having conversations with. Do I agree with her opinions? Sometimes I do, and sometimes I do not. But I still value her opinion on this issue, and on many others. Karissa really cares, and it is evident throughout her thought process. So, my dear readers, please welcome to the stage, Karissa Sharley! (Applause)
Karissa Sharley
As I read Southern’s current Sexual Integrity Policy, I appreciated the compassionate, thoughtful and biblical tone throughout. It’s obvious to me that a lot of thought went into writing it, and I respect that. The policy is intentional in acknowledging the complexity that sin has caused in human sexuality and empathizing with students who “face challenges in this area.” To me, this shows that Southern is thinking of sexuality with people in mind, not just as an issue.
The policy lays an important foundation with a reminder that we are called “to love everyone in harmony with God’s love for us,” implying that we are to show love and respect to all regardless of their views on sexuality.
I value that Southern’s policy reflects a positive, biblical view of sexuality, distinct from other opinions. I respect students on campus who may have alternate views of sexuality but who have still chosen to come here and abide by the Christian standards that Southern has chosen to uphold.
I found one of the policy’s statements especially meaningful: “All humanity is affected by sin and needs to be renewed by God. Therefore, emotions, feelings, and perceptions are not fully reliable indicators of God’s ideals.” That includes all of us.
Epilogue and Invitation by Xavier Quiles
Hey again (I do hope the readers aren’t getting tired of me). I really appreciate Karissa’s thoughts on the matter and her honesty about her premise. Integrity like that is important for fostering further discussions that will lead to better relationships and creating safe spaces for everyone. One thing I want to mention is that you can be a contributor too! Email the Southern Accent at accent@southern.edu , or send a message to our Instagram account, @sauaccent.
Dear reader, I can’t wait to hear what you have to say!